Wedding Invite Verses For Boat Wedding How To Handle People Who 'invite' Themselves Into Your Wedding?

How to handle people who 'invite' themselves into your wedding? - wedding invite verses for boat wedding

Two issues have emerged, both me by surprise;

Oldest first friends of my friend, the daughter of 8, and unfortunately it is almost as high round whether she could be the flower girl. It is a terrible thing, stop laughing, and I could not see them making the island without breaking ... But I do not know what to say.

As the female half of the couples who come to most minds me asking if I invite a friend who somehow familiar .... because it would be fun ... Why should I, I do not even have a conversation with this person.

Do not assume that people expect that "invited" to the invitation verses themselves?